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International Day of the Girl Child: Need for Family Life Education for the Girl Child


                                                                    

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International Day of the Girl Child: Need for Family Life Education for the Girl Child

Early in the week the world celebrated the International Day of the Girl Child and all fathers of girl children around the globe were happy, bearing in mind the traditional belief that a girl child is a ”nation.”

October 11, 2012 was the first day to be observed as the Day of the Girl Child. International Day of the Girl Child is an international observance day declared by the United Nations; it is also called the Day of Girls and the International Day of the Girl. The observation supports more opportunity for girls and increase awareness of gender inequality faced by girls worldwide based on their gender. The inequality includes areas such as access to education, nutrition, legal rights, medical care, and protection from discrimination, violence against women and forced child marriage. (From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia).    

According to Wikipedia, the Day of Girls helps raise awareness not only of the issues that girls face, but also of what is likely to happen when those problems are resolved. From this point of view, educating girls helps reduce the rate of child marriage, disease and helps strengthen the economy by helping girls have access to higher paying jobs. Similarly, protection from violence against women will not only protect women from assault and abuse from men but will help to create happier families when the problem is resolved. Also ending all forms of discrimination against women and girls is not only a basic human right, but it equally has a multiplier effect across all other development areas.

However, there are unnoticed adverse development consequential to the gains of gender equality in various areas of awareness being created by the United Nations in support of the Girl Child. One of these issues is that of increasing trend in Single Parenting, particularly single motherhood. The adverse effect of this phenomenon is more prominent in developing countries where the level of girl child education is relatively low.

Common causes of Single Parenting are:

  • Divorce
  • Death (widowhood)
  • Early Pregnancy (Premarital birth)
  • Adoption
  • Donor insemination

(listen2articles.com)

Other causes could also be:

  • Husband’s abandonment of family without formal divorce, and 
  • Career ego.

According to a report from European Policy Brief, Single Parenthood is on the rise everywhere in the world, including the European Union (EU). Single parents now constitute about 19% of the households with children in the EU. In the overwhelming majority of cases, this phenomenon concerns women. Only 15% of single parents are fathers, and their socioeconomic condition is better than that of single mothers. This issue has inspired a significant number of academic investigations and analyses that have highlighted the individual and collective difficulties related to this phenomenon. Not only are single mothers on the rise, but their situation is in many ways more problematic than that of other women. Indeed, single mothers are more likely to fall into poverty (their risk of poverty is 30%, compared to 17% for couples with children), to be unemployed, to have taken a part-time job in order to combine professional and family life, to have poorer physical and mental health – the rate of depression is particularly high among single mothers – and to have difficulties in building lasting new relationships (Sophie Heine).

Although there is no strong empirical evidence to support that children of single mothers in Africa fare worse than those with married mothers; existing evidence continues to show that single motherhood is associated with higher risks of poverty, reproduction of poverty and other negative outcomes that affect the well-being of single mothers and their children. A recent analysis covering 13 countries across sub-Saharan Africa found that for seven of them, more than 20% of women aged 14-49 had already experienced a union dissolution ( (de Walque and Kline 2012)

With the likely adverse implications of single parenthood for well-being, family-oriented programmes and studies have become more imperative. Hence, the need for Family Life Education in our national and international educational curriculum for the children, particularly the girl child.

Family Life Education is the practice of equipping and empowering family members to develop knowledge and skills that enhance well-being and strengthen interpersonal relationships through an educational, preventive and strengths-based approach.

The skills and knowledge needed for healthy family functioning are widely known:

  • Strong communication skills
  • Knowledge of typical human development
  • Good decision-making skills
  • Positive self-esteem
  • Healthy interpersonal relationships

(ncfr.org)

The importance of happy family in relation to socio-economic well-being of a nation cannot be over-emphasized.

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